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Christian
Leaders in Family and Children's Ministries
Show
that you care – support this Campaign
An
appeal by the Deputy Minister of
Correctional Service, Ms
Cheryl Gillwald, MP
The
16 Days of Activism Campaign: No Violence Against Women is a United
Nations-endorsed campaign. It takes place annually between 25 November
(International Day of No Violence Against Women) to 10 December
(International Human Rights Day). The South African Government runs
a parallel campaign that includes issues relating to violence against
children. This Campaign focuses primarily on generating an increased
awareness of the negative impact of violence on women and children.
The Department of Correctional Services (DCS),as Government’s
lead department, has been tasked, by the Presidency, to coordinate
the national Campaign. This task implies the delivery of a campaign
with an increasingly broader reach than all the preceding years.
Over the past three months the Office on the Status of Women (OSW),
the Office on the Status of the Child (OSC) and the Office on the
Status of Disabled Persons (OSDP)– all units within the Presidency
– have been working with the DCS, the Government Communication
and Information System (GCIS) and other sectoral partners to develop
a national calendar of events that we hope will resonate with an
even broader South African community, across the urban- rural divide.
The
purpose of the Campaign is:
- To
generate an increased level of awareness amongst South Africans
pertaining to the incidence of violence perpetuated against women
and children, how it manifests itself within the South African
community and the negative impact it has on these vulnerable groups;
- To
challenge perpetrators of these offences to change their behaviour;
- To
enhance and increase partnerships between government, the private
sector, civil society, organised labour, sectoral groups, the
faith-based organisations, the media (electronic and print) and
the diplomatic community in an effort to spread the message;
- To
align events in the national programme with that of the theme
for this year, which is Unite against woman and child abuse;
- To
raise funds for NGOs that work within the sector, providing invaluable
support to the victims and survivors of violence;
- To
communicate through the most effective and appropriate channels
aiming to reach the maximum number of people across the country,
particularly women and children residing in rural areas;
- To
engage actively with men and boys in the discourse about combating
violence in our homes, our communities and in the workplace; and
- To
highlight the stories of survivors of gender-based violence and
the impact that the Campaign has had on their lives.
White
Ribbon of Solidarity
South
Africans are called to support the Campaign by utilising the white
ribbon symbol in innovative and inventive ways to reflect solidarity.
By wearing these ribbons for the duration of the 16-day period,
employers and employees will provide an effective and striking visual
tool through which to elicit Campaign support. Unions and professional
organisations will also be encouraged to garner support within their
ranks alongside members and representatives from the sporting fraternity.
Postcard
Pledge
The
white ribbon campaign will be managed in conjunction with a postcard
pledge campaign. From 17 November 2004, 800 000 postcards will be
made available at Post Offices around the country. The public will
be invited to sign a no-violence pledge and the Post Office will
deliver these cards to a central point where they will be pasted
onto a huge Wall of Solidarity. The event will be extensively covered
by the media for the full duration of the 16-day Campaign.
National Calendar of Events
NGOs,
businesses and government departments at the national, provincial
and local levels will prepare sector-specific, rural-and urban-based
activities for the Campaign. This information can be fed into a
national calendar of events, overseen and managed by the GCIS. In
addition, participating partners will be requested to feature the
Campaign logo extensively in internal publications and correspondence,
on their websites and in messaging to their clients. They will also
be asked to feature the Campaign logo on product adverts and as
part of their individual advertising campaigns.
Employers
and employees will be encouraged to support the white ribbon campaign
and to source their white ribbons (beaded, ceramic or fabric)from
women’s empowerment groups that supply these lapel buttons,
pins and ribbons. A database of service providers has been compiled.
Campaign
Impact
The
combination of Government, business and civil society activities
and interventions, the envisaged saturation of media coverage via
advertising, public service announcements, interviews and editorial
pronouncements in conjunction with the extensive education campaign
will undoubtedly contribute to a heightened national awareness of
the issues related to violence and the importance of integrated
solutions to the problem.
What
you can do
The
rights of women and children are fundamental human rights -entrenched
in and protected by our Constitution. They are thus inalienable
from, integral to and indivisible from the human rights framework.
Gender-based violence in all its different guises is incompatible
with the dignity and worth of the human person, and must be eliminated.
Show that you care -support this Campaign by encouraging businesses,
service organisations, social clubs, religious communities to organise
events, wear white ribbons for the full 16 days and ensure that
postcard pledges are signed.
For
further details about the Campaign please contact:
Liezel Delport at 083 253-4884, e-mail Liezel.Delport@dcs.gov.za
or
Casper Badenhorst at 082 937-5999, e-mail Casper.Badenhorst@dcs.gov.za
The
ugly truth about violence and crime
"It was ugly, but it was necessary."
This was one delegate's response to yesterday's session on domestic
violence, presented by Advocate Molly Malete. Violence in the
family is one of the main factors causing division and brokenness
in so many homes, and reconciliation and unity are exactly what
the day's theme was about. "I enjoyed the fact that we got
such practical advice, so that we can go to our communities and
take on these giants," another delegate enthused.
Kevin
Hustler, Managing Director of Business Against Crime, offered
a message of hope of how God is able to overcome the seemingly
undefeatable giant of crime. Referring to the dropping crime statistics
in SA over the past two years, he reminded us of God's Promise
in Habakkuk 1:3-5. Crime and violence are always rather depressing
topics, but when we realise the amazing changes deep prayer, intercession
and action can bring, we are assured of our hope.
But
the real nitty gritty came later in the afternoon: delegates had
to fold a page in half, listing on one side the various evils
disrupting society, and on the other, the various practical Christian
solutions. Thereafter the page was unfolded and they had to link
every problem with its solution - showing how there is a network
of solutions we as Christians can take to stand
against evil.
Reverend
Mazabane encouraged delegates with these words: "Friday is
a day of work! We will really put our brains together and ask
God to lead us on how to transform our communities through His
power."
Nevelia
Heilbron
Stories
of hope shake group session
I
was moved to tears at today's track session. I was definitely
not expecting it. As a journalist, you are programmed to keep
your distance. But no earthly brainwashing can overcome the Spirit
of God, which was loosed upon this session in a mighty way. What
was evident today is God's deep desire to mend ailing families,
to heal the sick and suffering, and to restore the broken and
downcast.
In
line with today's theme, delegates were given the chance to share
their stories of hope, and this is what the Holy Spirit blessed,
as each of us was left to hear God's direction. Miriam Cele from
KwaMashu shared about Gozololo, a project she initiated with other
women, to provide care and support to traumatised children and
those orphaned by AIDS. She issued this challenge: "Boys
need a hug from their fathers, not only their mothers." The
group was further moved when a lady from Cape Town revealed that
she was diagnosed HIV-positive 10 years ago. She added that God
had sustained her physically and had restored her health after
the time she was expected to be dying. Others shared testimonies
of how God had intervened in hopeless situations of family breakdowns
and how God had called one to adopt not just one infected person,
but a whole family affected by AIDS. A delegate summed it all
up with the familiar quote: "It's better to light a candle
than curse the darkness."
I
was left deeply touched and overeager to continue my own journey
of offering the hope of Christ to a hopeless world.
Nevelia
Heilbron
The family that prays together, stays together
Numbers overflowed at the Family issues and Children's ministries
track, when the expected number of 50 delegates more than tripled
to approximately 175. The Revd Ndaba Mazabane, President of the
Association of Evangelicals in Africa, encouraged all to adopt
the prophet Nehemiah's approach to ministry: Pray, plan, proceed,
partner (with others), encounter opposition - but never give up.
Key issues raised amongst delegates were the importance to use
God's blueprint of the family as the starting point, to encourage
church leaders to stress the importance of the family and for
the Church to take on the role of the extended family, even spiritually
'adopting' the orphaned or those from single-parent homes.
A challenge to send protest letters to schools where sport or
activities are arranged on Sundays, was issued by Dr Arthur Preston,
Pastor at Bryanston Methodist church. He said: "We must go
back to our churches with new energy and enthusiasm, determined
to do things more effectively." Group discussions on practical
solutions to the problems in families included: making prayer
a lifestyle within families, setting up parent workshops on how
to deal with various children's issues, arranging family days
and promoting family issues through various media forms.
Nevelia
Heilbron
“Those
attending this track can expect to be challenged.”
So says Pastor Arthur Preston who, together with Revd Ndaba Mazibane,
co-ordinates this track. “We as Christian leaders in family
and children’s ministries need toask ourselves whether we
are really making a difference, and in this track we’ll
assess that honestly. For too long now we have sat on our hands,
and we need to get out of our comfort zones. To be effective in
children’s ministries, we need to offer them something the
world cannot offer.”
Revd Mazibane will be concentrating on what action we must take
to save our families from breaking down.
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